Ethics

Is it ethical to profess your love for someone whom you know to be attached?

On saturday, we gathered at Vicky's place and had a bit of fun doing a bit of fortune telling. It wasn't full fledged fortune telling, since we were only able to ask about our relations concerning only one person at a time.

I realised something that day, the tellings were quite accurate, but then the readings were so general that you could find a correlation if you tried.

So there.

I do not believe in horoscopes nor fortunes.

Life and love is what you make of it, even if it will take you a while to work up the courage to fight for it.

Recently a friend complained to me about how she regrets dumping her boyfriend. And as I listened, I came to the realization that I was listening to a kid complain. Because her regret surfaced only when she realized that her ex is moving on, and is starting to date once again.

From what I've heard, he is a perfectly nice guy, a tad clingy, a tad over-protective, but a nice guy nontheless. But that she decided to part ways due to issues which she felt were irresolvable. So she expressed a desire to be back with him, and I asked her, "do you feel that those issues are going to be resolvable now?" she couldn't give me any answer, just a I don't know.

From my point of view, she was being selfish. She wanted freedom, yet she wanted the guy to be there when she got tired of freedom. And now that she realises the guy might not be there anymorem she begins to regret it.

Of course, him being back in Singapore probably helped to changed her mind.

What I'm afraid of is that the guy will gladly take her back if she wants to go back, and that this might not be good for them.

I think that the both of them might not be mature enough to handle a relationship. At least not with one another.